So you are finally ready to pop the question. Nervous much? Don’t worry we are super confident that she’ll say yes. Not only is she a great catch she knows you are too! You’ve finally said to yourself this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with (awwww). 

BUT before you ask those four little words “Will you marry me?” prepare accordingly.

Where will you propose?

Ok, so this where you REALLY need to know your woman. Is she the type that likes surprises in front of 100’s of people or would she prefer something intimate with just the two of you or maybe a little of both? This is important. Women tend to overthink everything and question why you did what you did in the way you did it (I know you’re already confused). But the worst thing in the world is for a moment that was supposed to be a fairytale to become a nightmare.

Don’t know what to say, write it down. 

Besides where you will propose, it’s what you say that matters. If you are the kind of person that thrives under pressure great, but if you know you fumble over your words when you’re nervous or have a weird tick that makes you blurt out things you don’t mean it’s best that you write down exactly what you want to say and deliver it the way you want to say it. Most importantly, take a deep breathe, make eye contact and speak from the heart. 

Get the ring, but don’t go into debt. 

Yes we all know the ring is the wow factor, it’s what your woman will wear for the rest of her life representing her commitment to your bond. It’s also what she will show off to her friends, family and everyone at every waking moment. In your most subtle way, try to figure out what she likes and what she doesn’t like as far as style. Sometimes you may want to probe a best friend or a trusted family member to give you some insight this way she can be completely surprised. Once you have an idea of the ring type she wants, don’t be afraid to be unconventional to get the best deal outside of retail.  Scour the internet for estate sales, check out pawn shops, and even antique stores. You may actually find a diamond in the rough. Just make sure to have the ring checked out by a trusted jeweler before making a large purchase.

Look your best. 

Don’t be lazy, seriously. Unless you are proposing at sunrise on one knee by the side of the bed, get spiffy (please note: it’s totally OK to steal this idea). This is a moment that she is going to replay in her head 10 million times and tell every single person she encounters for the rest of her life. She will remember every detail, what you looked like, what you smelled like lol, and what you said. If you’re normally the guy that isn’t into dressing up, surprise her by getting dapper and if you are normally suited and booted, wear a color or accent piece that represents your relationship then tie it into your proposal speech. 

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